Episode 100

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17th Sep 2025

Tricky behaviour after nursery or school?

In this our 100th episode! We talked about: 

  • The importance of the transition from nursery / school to home but also for us going from work to home (especially if you are working from home!). 
  • How you can’t always be your ‘true self’, how things build up and how we have to hold it together when you aren’t at home and it comes out when you get home.  
  • Some ideas for what you can do to decompress before getting home.  
  • Connection before redirection – a few tweaks to the routine or some pre preparation can make a difference to coming home time. 
  • Not necessarily asking lots of questions when children come out of school or nursery. 
  • There may be particular triggers and worries that prompt behaviour and these are things that you might need to look into and support them further. 
  • How you sometimes just need to allow your children let it out when they get home.  
  • Keeping our calm.  

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Newborn to Teen and Everything in Between
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